But she loves you NOW, and has been a loyal wife and mother for 17 years and, bro, that is a true gift from God, and she loved you enough to marry you and to have children with you, and to tolerate your questions even though they are very distressing to her We have been married for 3 years and our marriage has been rocky almost since weve been married. Hopefully I can but I think I might need some more help I pray that I can start with this and move forward. We went away on a long weekend without our kids. Had your lady 'shopped around' before she met you, she might not have felt the need later. I'd just give her a "peace out" and leave.
I never was before.
I think my wife cheated years ago
Filed under Regardless, I do think you need to spell out to your wife that even though the affair happened two decades ago, your hurt feelings are happening Just Found Out Wife Cheated 12 years ago was created by robert I questioned her and she said she thught I was on it. Just the same, I think that you make the matter worse for yourself than it needs to be, by the language you use. I told her that it would never happen because I could never trust her. Don't settle into a boring routine of taking each other for granted. She wasn't honest with you up front when you two got married and therefore tricked you into marrying her with certain expectations. My trouble is that I feel like my life has been based on a lie.